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Hello friends, But the same questions keeps coming up:
In the SF Bay Area, this is especially tricky. High compensation doesn’t always translate into real financial progress—between taxes, housing costs, lifestyle inflation, and equity comp that can swing wildly year to year, it’s easy to feel unsure even when you’re doing “everything right.” That’s why I put together my article Am I Financially On Track? A 2026 Guide for Bay Area Tech Professionals that includes a shortlist of 8 key financial ratios (with ideal target ranges) that can help you quickly assess your financial health across three areas:
Think of these ratios as a financial dashboard: you don’t need perfection across the board—but if a few metrics are off track, you’ll know exactly where to focus. What I Want to Share: “You can look on paper and think, ‘I’ve got $5 million in stock,’ but if you don’t plan, you might only keep half.” I was recently invited to talk with Roger Silk, Ph.D., a leading expert in finance and philanthropy, about how tech and crypto professionals can save millions in taxes. We talk about the practical, real-world strategies that come up for high earners with concentrated positions, including equity compensation timing, AMT landmines, and when tools like a Charitable Remainder Trust (CRT) can help you diversify without triggering a tax bomb. And we get into crypto too, including why it matters to get your “coins into the system.” Bottom line, this is the work I love: not paying less tax just because—but making sure your money is actually funding the life you want. What’s on My Mind:
Photo of the Month: Over the holidays, we spent time in Tahoe with our kids, soaking up the snow and the slower pace. It’s a good reminder that some of the best returns come from time outside. |
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